I'm not ready to be in a relationship

This is one of my older blogs(copy n paste from my another blog^.^)

Valentine's day is around the corner.Everyone seems to be excited about it.Well,to be honest,i don't really like all these celebrations.Valentine's day to me,is created to remind people that they're still a couple,still having each other or at least having each other at this very day.How lovely is that with all the red roses,romantic candle light dinner,presents from each other,big fat kisses..

Sounds like im being sarcastic huh?Of course i admit that im kinda jealous with those couples in a way.Who doesn't want to be in love?Who doesn't want to have someone in their life?Oh yeah,this reminds me of a conversation between me n a guy friend of mine few days back.Let's named him P.

P: I don't want to be in any relationship right now.Prefer to stay single.

Me: Why? Won't u feel bored n loney?i mean mentally vulnerable?

P: Err..nope.

I was wondering why guys like to make such statement of 'i don't want or not ready to be in any relationship right now'.To me,it means 'i'm sorry but u're ain't my cup of tea.I don't want to be in relationship with u* I mean u'.They are just putting it in a nicer way or at least they think that that's a nicer way to put it.

Franky speaking, this is lame and it doesn't make them any way better.Wouldn't it be better to say 'i prefer us to be friend' or 'i just want to be friend with u'. Hello, unless the gal is a dumbass, she will get the obvious hidden meaning of u..duhh~

What's the point of cutting out the possibility that u might meet ur dream girl the next second which u're so wanted to be in relationship with her?Isn't that stupid ?Of course,the same goes to girls as well cause girls are doing exactly the same so far as i'm concerned.I think it hurts more if i know the guy that i confessed to is with another girl few days later after my confession.Yeah,this is the so called 'i'm not ready to be in any relationship'.Urgh..

Better be honest instead of creating a lame excuse.It isn't that hard to be frank sometimes anyway,right?Remember,the more u try to be nice, the more u llok like a faker.

So,stop telling all those bullshit which made urself look like an asshole of the century.